Simple Things

I saw the above image today on Facebook and I loved it, because it is so true. I am a firm believer in enjoying the simple things in life. And I think that the tougher things get, the more important it is to try to keep my mind on what I have to be thankful for. There are many things to be thankful for, but I thought I would share something that happened during the extended power outage.

After I was home from the hospital, but we still had no power – I won’t lie, things were tough. They were more than tough, they were scary. I was still having weakness, problems breathing, and muscle tremors due to heat-related issues with my MG.

But something so special and simple happened one night during the outage. It was our wedding anniversary and my husband and I were laying in bed. He told me that he loved me and he knew that things were tough right now, but in many ways, he didn’t think he had ever been more content and happy in his life.

He took my hand and as we laid there holding hands, the room started to light up. At first it startled me.

It is very dark out in the country at night, especially during a power outage. So any sudden light is a bit of a surprise. But a sudden light directly over our bed, was particularly surprising.

I said, “What is that?”

Then I realized what it was, a lightening bug!

Through the crack in the seal by the tiny window AC that was keeping me alive (via gasoline powered generator), we had been getting a few tiny moths into our room occasionally at night. But not a single lightening bug, not until that night.

First there was one, then quickly there were more.

We laid there, quietly watching the air above our bed, as it lit up over and over again. I counted six, then seven lightening bugs.

We were married on the seventh day of the seventh month.

Perhaps if I were a more talented writer, I could capture for you just how special that moment was.

I know there are people out there who don’t believe that God has the time for little things, like sending seven lightening bugs on just a certain night. But I believe that he does. I believe God finds many ways show us love and encouragement along our journey in life.

It might not have been exactly the way we would have planned to spend our wedding anniversary. But it was pretty amazing all the same.

I am grateful for that moment, just laying there holding hands, watching our room light up for hours. It was truly magical. 

 

5 Comments

  1. Michelle says:

    This is a beautiful, magical and very special story. I don’t think you need special talent to tell us this story, but I can understand wanting to find the perfect words to describe your experience.

    I’m sorry to hear you’re having such a hard time, but you are absolutely amazing with your attitude. I hope you feel better soon. It makes me feel so good inside reading this. Believing that God sent you seven lightening bugs, and knowing how special you and your family are, that is beautiful.

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful love story!!!

    Sending you healing wishes and a belated Happy Anniversary.

  2. phylor says:

    What a wonderful, magical experience! The strength of your faith, and the warmth of family will help you get through the rough times.
    Being thankful for the “little” things is perhaps more important than gratitude for the big things.
    There is syncronecty (spelling) and serendipity (spelling) in the world if we slow down our lives and watch it unfold,
    Thanks for sharing this special moment — you do have the words to paint the specialness of that night.

  3. Carol Rumberger says:

    How very awesome.:)

  4. Beautiful anniversary tale. You and your husband have become another in my wonderful list of heroes in my life.

    On a coincidental note, my husband and I celebrated our fifth wedding anniversary on July 7th this year. We were married on 7-07-07 :)

  5. mo says:

    Deb, What a wonderful story! The best part is that you and your hubby both thought the lightening bugs were a “sign” or a message of your love for each other. A magical message indeed! Bless you and your whole family.
    mo
    I had a similiar experience with dragonflies once.

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